Since young love is spreading round,

there's nothing wrong with a little sappy post eih?

:)
generally these are the things that I believe girls look for in a guy ;)
Contrary to popular belief,
Good girls don't always like bad boys.
We like boys who :

we don't need him to worry about his looks more than us!

humor is ALWAYS an added bonus.

and not the vulgar kind ,please.

We respect guys who respect us :)

this trick always works,

especially if it smells good;

wait, only if it doesn't smell bad XD

And of course,
guys who take the first step.
When he :

or

it matters.
it always matters.
it may seem small,
but it shows us you care; and that you're serious.

And then there's this issue of security.
We love it when guys :

when he's with or away from us. 

from all the dangers of the world :) 


and when they do all these :

 

just to remind us that we are special.

that no matter how insecure and badly we see ourselves,
they know better.
and that they chose us because they see the beauty in us.
and want us to see the same :)

and we girls love to know that he :

cause if he's so perfect that he can do everything on his own,

what are we doing in his life?

And of course the cheesy added bonuses when he :

and star gazing too! :D

 ;)

we like these although we don't always say it out loud.
we like it simply because :)

And of course!
Sincerity.
When guys actually : 

if you can't do it,
don't promise.
this of course, applies to us girls as well.
when a guy actually :

it matters.
and just as much as you hate fake girls,

we too feel the same way.
Guys who :
.

it's just sweet to know,

that even in your conversation with God,
we are remembered :)

 And of course, guys who :

but aren't selfish enough to want to be the only reason you smile.
guys who understand that although he is a great big chunk of our lives,
he isn't the only part.
guys who appreciate our good friends,
and accept them for who they are.
Guys who are all the above would generally be the guys who :

:)
Let's make a toast to all the new relationships around.
Cheers to young love.
Cheers to old love rekindled.
Cheers to guys who make their girls feel cherished.
Cheers to girls who make the man feel complete.
Cheers to those who are still seeking;
Cheers to those who still believe that wishes on shooting stars would come true.

 Cheers! :)

p/s : all copyrights of the pictures goes to
http://theboyswho.tumblr.com/

there are no such things as perfect men or women.

they only become perfect after they've hurt you endless times.

and after you've hurt them endless times.

after the arguments and the tears and the breakups and makeups.

after they try to be the best and fail, and try again and fail better.

after they try to dance with you even if they don't know how to

after you argue wtih your best friend over them.

after they make mistakes and try to make up for it.

after all that,

you'll realize that it is worth it.

this is sorta what i've learnt from Grey's Anatomy.

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first day back in trimester 3.

cheers.

i always think i want all the drama in life.
like on tv.
where the guy gets the girl at the very last minute.
tell her he loves her in front of a million people.
do i really want that?
it's sweet yeah,
i wouldn't complain if that were to happen to me.
but more often than not,
i just want simple.
no?
i need security and a random splash of excitement.
lol.
i'm not making sense.
i just had to write it down.
good day people.

i pray for a husband that understand my love and devotion for my family
i pray for a husband that loves his own family
i pray for a husband that loves his younger siblings because that means he'll make a great father
i pray for a husband who loves God above anything else
i pray for a husband that is Asian but loves like a Western man :D
i pray for a husband that will love me even if i put on weight
i pray for a husband that would turn to me to share his problems, not to turn me away.
i pray for a husband that believes in miracles and surprises and little joys of the world
i pray for a husband that would roll with me in the grass and count the stars till we fall asleep.
i pray for a husband that would understand if i burst into tears after a long day and hug me tight
i pray for a husband that will help me see that its okay to be who i am.

i think Jesus is listening very hard to all my prayers.
So long list some more :D

a long picture post on love~

a proposal is always beautiful,
especially when the girl says yes
and the guys kisses her like he never plans to let go :)

when a guy finally holds and kisses me like that,
when i finally actually let a guy do that,
i would break down and cry.
i'll tell him through my tears,
how awfully lucky i am to have him.
because he chose me,
despite my imperfections.
despite the fact that i'm not the most beautiful girl in the room,
despite the fact that i don't always feel secure with myself,
despite the fact that i don't have a flat abdomen or tiny thighs,
despite the fact that pimples still grow on my face,
despite the fact that i may be jealous at times,
despite it all,
he chose me.
and makes me feel like a princess.
and i'll send a prayer back to heaven.
because at that moment,
Jesus just answered my prayers.

i do sorta miss being in love.. :D

when you fall in

everything seems to be so beautiful,

like in this picture.

pretty,happy,perfect

when you go your own ways,

you realize sometimes forever is real

maybe in different ways,

but the love remains.

you do not just hate.

even Snape feels that way :)

i just do.

its a reflex action.

most of the time,ijust smile back at the memories.

thanking them for making me the stronger person i am today

don't you agree?

Jesus told me today He will let the right guy come at the right time.

He does not want me to simply go around breaking my heart for those who don't matter.

"I know better",He said

"Yes sir! I'll wait" was my reply.

i like guys who support your hand when they hold it.
they reach up to you with their palms up.
so we can place our hands in theirs.
and feel safe :)

i have a few cravings.
an air conditioned bedroom.ice cream.chocolate.cakes.a thinner me.the drive to study.a chat with nadia elena & sara salim.a long chat with nadia elena & sara salim.dance class,ballet and jazz to be exact.music studio.greasy french fries.a day out.cold ice cream soda.black forest cake.white chocolate macademia.pizza.a nice,loyal,chuck bass-sy boyfriend.christmas.presents.surprises.a 50 metres swimming pool.a cooler weather.

so,
i did finish season 1 of gossip girl.
i just love seeing the foursome stand up for each other.
even icy cold chuck's heart can be thawed by even colder ice queen blair.
they make a cute couple.
and,
time to stop?

drama overload.
haha,too much gossip girl?
for some reason i have always tried to make myself impartial from all the movies i see,
and all the books i read.
especially when it balls down to prince charming with a bottomless pocket.
cause when i watch them,
i tne d to get this overwhelming urge to rush God and make Him give me what i want.
When i don't get it,
i get impatient and lal upset.
It's not fair towards Him and it isn't towards myself.
So,
i guess i'm planning to take a break from Gossip Girl,
and get back to reality maybe?..


on another note,
God really does give us what we want,eventually.
I'm so happy and thankful for my results.
really really really am :)
I am now blessed with the motivation and eagerness to rush forward for this semester.
Which will be quite a handful but i'm sure thing will work out.
I have to stay level headed and work hard once again.
Expect realistically and avoid disappointment :)

Happy endings

Do you believe in them?
Do you have faith that it will happen?
Do you have the courage to move on even when you think it won't?

I trust in them,
I have faith in them,
I seek comfort in them.

But they don't happen easily,
You have to fight the war,
Endure the tears and blood and pain.

He will give me what I want and need and even more.
I just have to wait.
And be a good girl in the mean time.

Abstinence from sex till marriage sounds old fashioned to you?
Well, that's what I intend to do.
Cause my husband deserves the best and that only.
How do you expect one to give you his best,
when you can't do the same for him?
It does not work that way remember?

He'll be the prince and I'll be the princess.
He won't call me queen just because he knows I like being a princess better.
He will tell me I'm beautiful instead of hot cause he knows me.
He'll hug me tight in silence because he knows when I'm at a loss for words.
He'll see me through my tantrums and tears and laughter.
He'll see right through my heart.

Because I'll do the very same for him.

This is what Daddy told me.
He asked me to be patient because He knows best.
He loves me and does not want to see me sad.
He knows that when I give,I hold nothing back.
He knows,
and I'll wait because I trust Him J

chuck and blair in gossip girl.
i've only watched 3 episodes in my life,
but something about the way chuck is with blair in those 3 episodes,
something so trusting and willing
so unlike his icy strong manner,
snapped something in me.
and i don't quite know what.